We don’t know about you but we love a wedding. The dress, the food, the dodgy dance moves from Uncle Pete… What’s not to like? However, it’s fair to say formal occasions and youngsters who like to make noise, take naps and explore new surroundings at full pelt, don’t always mix. Surviving a wedding with toddlers can be a challenge, but with some preparation and creativity, you can ensure it goes smoothly. That’s not to say you can’t have a wonderful time though. And, to help you out, here’s a reality check and some top tips to help you get through the big day with little ones, here are 18 ways to help you manage:
1-Pack Essentials: Bring a bag with snacks, drinks, diapers, wipes, a change of clothes, and their favorite comfort items, this will also give you a stress-free day.
- Dress Comfortably: Choose comfortable and weather-appropriate clothing for your toddler to avoid fussiness, as the last you want is your toddler feeling un-easy.
- Bring Entertainment: Pack small toys, coloring books, or a tablet with headphones to keep them occupied and entertained for a long period of time.
- Time Naps Wisely: Try to schedule naps around the ceremony and reception so your toddler isn’t overtired and feeling restless.
- Plan for Distractions: Have new or special toys that can hold their interest for a long time.
- Engage Them in Activities: Involve them in small tasks like handing out programs or being part of the procession, if appropriate.
- Set Realistic Expectations: Understand that your toddler might not behave perfectly and that’s okay, toddlers are fond of going on adventures whereever they are.
- Locate the Quiet Spots: Locate quiet areas at the venue where you can take your toddler for a break if needed.
- Use a Carrier or Stroller: For easy movement and to provide a comfortable place for your toddler to rest